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Chinimickolot · 01-08-2007, 10:35 AM

Andrew, people do not jump all over you because you disagree with their opinion! You have a right to disagree with whoever or whatever you want to. However, it is the way you come across in your arguement. Cindy and RNT are not the only ones you have slammed on this site, you have done it numerous times to different users. My advice to you is, if you don't agree with someones thread, post, or whatever......just state your opinion and move the fuck on! You are the one who keeps the arguements going, by attacking whoever says something neg about your arguement. This is not a debate......but you are doing your best to turn it into one.

acheyne · 01-08-2007, 11:18 AM

You honestly can't say that my post in response to RNT's original thread "slammed" him. I posted that I disagreed with the attitude he was taking and pointed out that the moderators had a perfectly valid reason for banning him.

That post was then followed by 3 or 4 posts which could fall under the umbrella of "slamming", but it was all coming in my direction.

Another way to look at it is that RNT's original post was "slamming" a group of people or website that I happen to like and enjoy. They're not here to defend themselves, so I posted defending their actions. This seems to have pissed off a ton of people here.

So, basically, you're saying that it's OK for anyone but me to voice an opinion. If you don't like my posting style, I'm not about to appologize for it. I actually spend some time re-reading what I've written to try and ensure that what I'm posting is clear and articulates what I want to say.

haveblue - I'll just not respond to your post. I don't agree with what you've said and you seem to think the best thing for me to do if I disagree with your post is to not post anything. This ignores that fact that your post was in disagreement with my post so you were breaking your own guideline by posting in the first place. Thanks for the help. I'm just not going to respond to what you're not saying.

acheyne · 01-08-2007, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Chinimickolot

This is not a debate......but you are doing your best to turn it into one.

How am I the only guilty party in this? I'm simply trying to defend myself and my actions.

But, once again, to make hrosv happy:

Chinimickolot - I <3 you. Can't we just be friends? Contrary to what you seem to think, I'm not an asshole.

Chinimickolot · 01-08-2007, 12:06 PM

I'm not saying you shouldn't post your opinions, but once your opinion is stated, you shouldn't come back and argue with the next person who disagrees with you. As you can see, that turns nasty very quickly....Why do you feel the need to always be right in your opinion.

As for being friends, I will keep an open mind about that

Now I am going to take my own advise and not turn this into a debate.....I've said all I have to say on the subject.

hrosv · 01-08-2007, 12:26 PM

This isn't what I intended for this thread to be at all.

Sigh.

acheyne · 01-08-2007, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Chinimickolot

I'm not saying you shouldn't post your opinions, but once your opinion is stated, you shouldn't come back and argue with the next person who disagrees with you. As you can see, that turns nasty very quickly....Why do you feel the need to always be right in your opinion.

I think we'll just agree to disagree.

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As for being friends, I will keep an open mind about that

Sounds good!

Krissy · 01-08-2007, 12:49 PM

Holy crap! I really should just be taking my own advice and not read this thread but I was just curious to see if you were still all fighting. I do not understand whatsoever how you all can blame Andrew for this ridiculous argument. He is backing up what he posted and you are all doing the same, so why is it different for Andrew? Is it because he doesn’t agree with you all? We all know that Andrew has some strong opinions and he isn’t afraid to share with everyone and so do many of you, myself included.

If we all shared the same views on things this site would be extremely boring, so that is the great thing about having some many different personalities mingling with one another, but some of you are just taking it way too far. I respect everyone that frequently use this site and I am not taking anyone’s side in regards to this situation but I just want you all to take a step back and see how absurd you are all being.

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Originally Posted by haveblue

Your problem lies in step 3 of your pattern. If you have something negative to say, don't bother saying it, because it'll only get people mad at you. No one cares about you (or anyone else) or what you (or anyone else) has to say, so don't bother.

Most of you are saying negative things..........what's good for the goose, is good for the gander.

Krissy · 01-08-2007, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by acheyne

I think we'll just agree to disagree.

Sounds good!

I wish this was posted before I gave my two cents worth.....I am glad everyone is getting along, I think you are all fantastic!

acheyne · 01-08-2007, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by hrosv

This isn't what I intended for this thread to be at all.

Sigh.

What did you want the thread to be? IMO, it went fairly well. Chinimickolot and I had a disucssion that started off heated, we both stated some opinions and things cooled down and now she's willing to keep an open mind about me, which is a big improvement!

Dr. Phil and I are also now thinking about starting a long term relationship together.

Cindy still hates me, but I can't seem to do anything about that.

haveblue has nothing to say.

Heather, please stop fishing for Hugs! We'll all get along eventually!

hrosv · 01-08-2007, 01:39 PM

Can't we just sit together in a field of daisies and sing Kumbaya?

Okay, that's a big stretch. I can't help it. I'm the love police.

But I'm glad things are going well. And no, I won't stop fishing for hugs.

You'll just have to deal with that!

acheyne · 01-08-2007, 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by hrosv

Can't we just sit together in a field of daisies and sing Kumbaya?

Okay, that's a big stretch. I can't help it. I'm the love police.

But I'm glad things are going well. And no, I won't stop fishing for hugs.

You'll just have to deal with that!

I've told you before - I'm happily married!

hrosv · 01-08-2007, 01:48 PM

Har har!

Dogg_P · 01-08-2007, 02:12 PM

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Dr. Phil and I are also now thinking about starting a long term relationship together.

AH HA!
I KNEW IT!!!
There had to be a reason Dr. Phil wasn't as cranky any more.
Its like someone pumped him full of love...so to speak...

haveblue · 01-08-2007, 02:38 PM

Just to note, I have no problem with anyone on this forum, I like all of you. I just don't like arguing.

cindy1969 · 01-08-2007, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by acheyne

Cindy still hates me, but I can't seem to do anything about that.

Andrew,, Hate is a very Strong word. No one will find me saying that i hate anyone on this site, Maybe that i "don't like" someone but never hate.
So please before you talk about me in your posts all i ask is that you get your facts straight, before making me sound like an Ignorant Bitch!!